The New York Times published a horrifying story about the
rape and abuse of Afghan boys by Afghan militia leaders and the U.S. military’s
position that our soldiers are not allowed to do anything about it. In “U.S.Soldiers Told to Ignore Sexual Abuse of Boys by Afghan Allies,” US soldiers
tell their stories of knowing about the abuse and being told to look the other
way. In addition, when they did interfere they faced official charges for
getting involved. (Most recently a Green Beret is fighting his dismissal over
doing something about the abuse.) An article like this rightly strikes us as
horrific because of our innate moral sense that this kind of behavior is
inherently immoral and it does not matter who engages in it. Pedophiliac
rapists are wrong no matter what their culture teaches. Then we are doubly
aggravated because our moral compass is frustrated by the illogical policy that
sex trafficking, rape, and pedophilia are overlooked exactly because we are
dealing with another culture. So, we find significant moral dissonance with
something like this – a conflict between two strong moral intuitions in our
current culture.
The first is that this kind of sexual exploitation and
violence is simply wrong. And by "simply wrong" we mean to say that there are
not situations in which we can imagine that kind of violence to be right. The
second is that we have become deeply hesitant to judge the moral actions of
other cultures out of a misguided sense of tolerance. Who are we to say they
are wrong? And currently, the wining force is on the side of this conception of
tolerance. Even if we still see pedophiliac rape as morally wrong, our cultural
institutions are hesitant to act as if it is wrong. Our moral instincts are
slowly running afoul of reality.
This kind of moral judgement (many will see it as a lack
of moral judgement, but it is in fact a cowardly moral judgement) is not
limited to some recently uncovered military protocol. It is systemic in the
Western world. For example, the vaunted international human rights
organization, Amnesty International, has recently begun to weigh in on the
problem of the human sex slave trade and their growing record is decidedly
mixed. They recently passed a proposal regarding their position on the sex
slave trade that is less than brave. It leans in the direction of
decriminalizing the sale and rape of human beings for fun. From an article in the Washington Post:
Amnesty International recently adopted a proposal that recommends decriminalizing the sex trade, a move that it says is for the human rights and equal protections of sex workers. This proposal instead gives amnesty to pimps, brothel owners and sex buyers by recognizing everyone in sex work as “consenting adults.”
The moral reasoning is as baffling as the conclusion
involving “consenting adults”:
This industry is not safe, and Amnesty International understands that sex workers in many countries face high levels of violence, but it draws the implausible conclusion that the danger lies in societal stigma, not in the precarious nature of the sex industry and those who exploit it.
Amnesty International is unwilling to take a stand
against an aggressive, largely anti-female evil on the grounds that calling it
a moral evil might stigmatize the victims. In some insulated circles this
sounds like brave moral reasoning. In the clear light of day it is dangerous
and sophomoric.
I know how complicated the world of aid to women and
girls caught in the sex trafficking can be. I helped found an organization that
provides long-term support, education, and ministry to girls rescued from the
sex slave trade here in the United States. If you want to donate to an
organization actually doing something for these girls, I encourage you to join
me in giving to Sarah’s Home.
It is obvious that the girls we work with have deep and
abiding issues they need to work through for a long time in order to lead
healthy, independent lives. And they are not “easy” to work with. But far and
beyond the complications of working with the girls is the snake’s nest of
dealing with government bureaucracy. It is impossible to work with any single
organization, so you have to convince several of them of the value of what you
do, which inevitably does not fit into the pre-printed boxes on their
paperwork. And if you get one branch of government on your side, you still deal
with the inane and CYA policies of the others. Over and over our work is hindered
by government, not primarily the girls.
And one of the most significant issues we face is how to
categorize these girls once they are in the system. Because the American culture
is just now coming to terms with the reality of sex trafficking in our borders,
we simply do not have legislation that helps the victims in ways they need
help. Technically they are often processed as prostitutes, even at the age of
13, and when a wise Police Officer realizes what is going on the best solution
they often have is to put them in the domestic abuse system. The first category
labels them as a criminal; the second doesn’t go far enough to help. So laws
and policies need to change to make the work a long term success.
All that to say, I understand that Amnesty International
may not have pre-approved legal categories for the victims of sex trafficking
at their disposal, but their solution is the dumbest and most harmful possible.
You don’t help these kids by de-stigmatizing the organized crime behind
rape-for-profit. If you are moral and brave, you take a clear ethical stand and
begin to change the system. We did that in our own small way, and if there are
courageous people at AI, maybe they can do the same.