I am increasingly impressed with the need for the
Christian church to stop taking their cues from our current
(Western, American,
Progressive) culture, and reclaim the high-ground of defining our terms and
ideas. We need to be deliberate about
the church filling vocabulary and concepts with biblically-faithful truths for
disciples and any other people we get to influence. Only when we do, will we begin to make
powerful disciples who have been dislodged from the drift of our culture's
garbage barge and reconnected with the glory of a risen and present Savior.
I have offered several areas of engagement and reflection
in the recent past, and I want to add another here: a theology of human
sexuality.
More and more the drive of culture is to cheapen human
sexuality, erase all barriers to sexual behavior, disconnect it from moral and
biological realities, and turn it into (or back into) a bacchanalian
free-for-all. We all suffer when this
happens. Contrary to the propaganda,
there is no freedom or personal fulfillment in border-less sexual behavior. Teenagers (or any of us) are actually not
like dogs in any significant way, and our sexual acts are not like those of
animals in any significant way. We do
not free sexual expression by equating humans (especially young humans) with
animals, rather we cheapen the human being.
So, to this end, I have a handful of initial thoughts
which will hopefully lead to deeper reflection and a better understanding of
how God created humans as sexual creatures.
Sexuality is a
Gift of God's Creation
I do not speak of the sex act directly, but of sexuality
- the quality of human relationships that joins us physically and
spiritually. It is the quality of our
creaturely character that leads to the sex act, and it is a gift of God given
to human beings by virtue of their being humans. It is part of who we are, and it is a good
thing.
Possibly the most useless teaching on human sexuality has
been perpetrated on evangelical teens for decades - "Don't!" I am in full agreement that teens should not
engage in sexual behavior, but the lesson that is communicated through a
completely negative concept leads to all kinds of shallow misunderstandings and
frustrations in the future. Instead of
temporary behavior modification, what would teaching look like that highlights
how it can be beautiful, productive, and God-honoring? Is it possible that a positive message will
be better for Christian disciples in the future?
Heterosexual, Monogamous,
Life-Long Marriage is Where it Flourishes
Sexuality is intrinsically tied to gender, pleasure, and procreation. As such, it is necessarily (and ironically) a
communitarian act and it matters
how I use my sexuality, because it can create or destroy relationships.
We are Soulish Beings
First
One of the greatest crimes perpetrated by an
overly-sexualized culture is the theft of your soul - at least your knowledge
and awareness of your soul. And the
elimination of a soul is the beginning of the animalization of the human
person. From there it is only a short
stone's throw to equating human sexuality with animal sex.
Sexuality is a part of your soul and it affects the shape
of your soul. It cannot be wielded
without moral and spiritual consequence.
Misused and
Misunderstood Sexuality is the Root of Many Things We (Currently) Call Evil
The human sex slave-trade is the direct result of misused
sexuality. The perpetuation of the
abortion industry, partial-birth abortion, the explosion of the number of single
mothers, the commodification of the human body, the sexualization of childhood
- all these and more are the direct and necessary results of bad ideas about
human sexuality. So, can we address the
solutions to these problems through reclaiming a thoroughly Christian theology
of human sexuality? Quite possibly.
These are nutshells of ideas, but I believe them to be
important. The church simply can't sit
around letting our culture define our ideas for us and hope that Christians
grow up to be like Christ.